Let the kids grow up and believe they deserve more than they earn. show them ways to buy the things they want without waiting or working. give them jobs so they think they’re getting by or living the life they’re supposed to, but don’t pay them enough to get ahead. only give them enough money to eat the food you make and the clothes you sew, but not the education you had. this will keep them under your thumb. their perceived debt to you never has to end. you could own human beings, multiple human beings, for the entirety of their lives. all you have to do is make everything you were allowed to have slightly more expensive make all the jobs you used to work pay slightly less, and they will be clamoring at your doorstep for more debt so they can live the the illusion you created.